tw: abusive parents
Aha! Found it. (Advice targeted to parents of fat people, but good advice for all parents, IMO.)
(Which is a wonderful blog as well, so signal boost as well.)
I literally am that adult they describe. (And the fat shaming was only part of what I left.)
^^ Not my comments above, tumblr is just trash about reblogging quotes.
BUT ALSO I JUST WANTED TO SAY that while this is good advice for parents, it’s ALSO a good reminder for those who have shitty parents - if you have the option to leave, you don’t need to feel guilty for doing so. It is not your job to take abuse, just because they’re your parents.
Should you make jokes? No, of course not. But caring for the welfare of your child means not wanting your child to be fat.